How to Count Your Blessings with a 30 Days of Gratitude Challenge
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All Scripture references come from the King James Version of the Holy Bible (KJV)."
Have you ever been stuck in a pity party and could not find a way to escape? Back in 2011, I found myself in a hospital bed with bandages where both hands and both feet had been. After my prayer for strength, courage, and faith to get through life as a brand-new quadruple amputee, I had a choice to make.
I could wallow in self-pity, or I could put my big girl panties on, and choose to approach the rest of my life with faith and a positive attitude. Guess which route I chose! And if you haven’t figured out yet which method of keeping that positive attitude I followed, keep reading.
Thankfulness is an essential part of increased joy and a positive mood. So, welcome to the 30 Days of Gratitude Challenge! Every day is the perfect opportunity to show thankfulness, not only on Thanksgiving but into the New Year. Start today and by January 1st, you will have already established the gratitude habit so that you can continue the gratitude challenge past the 30 days of the daily gratitude journal prompts and activities that I’m giving you here.
What Is The 30 Days of Gratitude Challenge?
Many people are not accustomed to daily thoughts of gratitude. By participating in this 30-Day gratitude challenge, you’ll grow accustomed to becoming more aware of the blessings around you besides, the obvious types of things we’re thankful for like, “I’m thankful for my family, my home, my health.” The goal is to recognize the simple blessings in life that we might take for granted.
By challenging yourself to approach life from a thankful perspective, you’ll learn to look deeper into things, including adversity. It’s easy to find the negative in the obstacles that you face. The goal of a gratitude challenge is to recognize just how many ways you’re blessed.
I’m sure you’ve heard that you get what you focus on. So if you seek things to be thankful for, you’ll find more of them, instead of focusing on negative things which we aren’t always grateful for. The bottom line is, to pay attention to what you focus on. This inspiring book is a great example of finding gratitude in everyday life.Grow your gratitude habit beyond November with the daily gratitude journal prompts and activities included in the Count Your Blessings Gratitude Challenge. #gratitudechallenge #thankfulness #gratitude matters Click To Tweet
How Do You Do 30 Days of Gratitude?
It’s very simple! You make a conscious decision to look for blessings every single day. Write them in your journal, and be mindful of when you start to take on a negative mindset. When your thoughts start turning south, stop, pivot, and think of something to be thankful for.
How do you pivot? I like to use the clicker or TV remote activity. If you don’t like what you’re watching on TV, you grab the remote and change the channel. The same thing applies when you have negative thoughts. The key is to look for clues and catch yourself. Then grab the remote, and change the channel to something more positive. Thinking of something to be thankful for at that moment, will be on the new channel.
Why is a Mindset of Gratitude Important?
Thankful people are happy people. When you come from a place of gratitude, you’re reflecting an abundance and positive mindset. Without that mindset, every negative thing (big or small,) that you encounter could alter your mood and send you into a downward spiral. That’s no good for anybody.
But when you focus on thankfulness, you learn to appreciate all that you have and not worry so much about what you don’t have. You also tend to look for blessings during difficult times versus going all “gloom and doom” when the tough times hit.
According to research done by the folks at Positive Psychology, they found that there are so many health benefits of gratitude. They include things like:
- Increased happiness and positive mood
- More satisfaction with life
- Reduced stress
- Less materialism
- Better physical health
- Better sleep
- Encourages patience, humility, wisdom, and many more
So I would say that with results like these, practicing gratitude really does work.
How do you Practice Gratitude in your Daily Life?
With so many benefits to practicing and building your gratitude habit, most notably a shift in mindset, how do you put practicing gratitude into action? Many people start with a gratitude journal or a gratitude jar. List several things that you are thankful for each day in that journal. I’ve provided some daily gratitude journal prompts in this free 40-day gratitude calendar you can grab. You may prefer sharing your blessings with a friend or your spouse at the end of each day. I would suggest, picking a method that works best for you.
Essentially, look for the blessing in everything, including struggles or challenges that you may have in your life. Practicing kindness towards others is a great way to make gratitude a part of every day. When you have negative thoughts, reminders of the things that you’re thankful for will change that negative mindset.
Be thankful toward others, everywhere you go. Thank the people who serve you, the customer service people, the child who holds the door open for you, and the friend who calls just at the right time. Thank your loved ones for all the little things that they do for you. Be especially mindful not to take them for granted.
Make building your gratitude habit a part of your daily life, not just when a November thankful challenge shows up. Point out your blessings to your family at dinner time. Share the benefits of gratitude with your family and friends and on social media.
Be especially thankful to our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Offer words of thanksgiving in every single prayer. It’s not unusual for me to offer a prayer of gratitude for all of God’s creation. Every blessing comes from God. Never forget that. How often do we take God for granted? We often pray for things and situations, yet we neglect to show gratitude to the Giver of all of our blessings.
Does Gratitude Really Work?
I think the answer to that question comes from your results. If you’ll remember that pity party that I was in when I first lost my limbs, I can truly tell you that gratitude is one of the main tools I used to pull myself out, in addition to growing my relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ. But for you, how do you feel when you’ve written in your gratitude journal for some time, and upon later review, you find pages and pages of things that you have been blessed by in your life?
Does it lift your mindset? Do you see more blessings, the more you look for them? Are you more thankful and more positive? Or do your results bring negative experiences? It’s really doubtful that you grow more negative the more that you practice gratitude.
How Do I Start My Gratitude Practice?
There are a couple of options for this gratitude challenge. The first is to use my printable calendar, with 40 days of gratitude prompts. For each day in the gratitude calendar, you’re given a gratitude prompt of what you can be grateful for on that day. Here are some examples of daily gratitude journal prompts:
- Who made you smile today and why?
- Name one blessing from today.
- What is one thing one of your family members did today that made you happy?
- Who’s friendship are you thankful for and why?
- Who was kind to you today and why?
But don’t stop there. That’s your first of the gratitude prompts. Come up with more ideas so that you’re listing at least 3-5 things that you’re thankful for each day. The more the better. Check out Gratitude from A to Z or Gratitude Lists: More Than Just the Latest, Greatest Fad for more ideas.
The second option for a challenge is the Your Amazing Count Your Blessings Challenge Ebook, which lists 30 activities that you can do to show your gratitude. It includes more daily gratitude journal prompts, journaling pages, and a gratitude tracker, all necessary for growing your gratitude habit. You won’t go wrong using the calendar and the ebook together.
What To Do With Your Gratitude List?
Now you have a journal with blessings from every day. What happens next? First, keep adding to it. It’s a great resource for when times are tough, you’re feeling down, and need a boost. When you’re sad, pull out your list and see just how blessed you really are. There’s no more need for your pity party. Praise the Lord for every blessing in your life.
Take advantage of this gratitude challenge to make thankfulness a way of life. Use the gratitude prompts that I’ve provided to kick-start things. Share this challenge with your friends. Every November, it’s not uncommon to find a November thankful challenge. Take advantage of those as well. Just be sure you don’t limit your gratitude activities to just in November. Building your gratitude habit is a year-round practice.
If you need more help building your gratitude habit, check out my Cultivate a Grateful Heart Gratitude Bundle. This 30-day printable gratitude bundle offers everything you need to help you grow your gratitude habit. Includes thorough journaling & planner pages, idea prompts, coloring gratitude cards, challenge tracker, artwork, and more.
You just can’t have enough gratitude in your life. Test this theory and in the comments, let me know what your results are.
Thank you so much!
Wonderful article. You know how much I love the practice of daily gratitude and believe it is a life-saver. At least it was and is for me. Your tips and ideas are so good, practical and helpful.
Yes, Fleda I know. I’m so glad my tips and prompts are helpful.
I need help to put my full trust in god and stop over thinking
I understand Kathleen. We all tend to overthink things. I hope you will use the articles in the Spiritual Growth category on this site for some basics to help you trust God.
Very helpful and inspiring article! Great work!
Thanks so much LeeAnn!
Having a Gratitude Calendar sounds like a great idea. It makes us think and realize just how much we need to be thankful for.
Thanks so much, Lyanna. We’re so blessed, so let’s use this gratitude calendar to count those blessings.
Gratitude has so many health benefits indeed! Beside, you’re so right – every day is the perfect opportunity to show thankfulness!
Exactly, Anna. For better health, show gratitude every single day!
We should all shift to think more positively and not on the negative. The gratitude would really settle in that way.
I completely agree, Lily!
There are times when I get frustrated with life and then I stop and look around me. Then I realize I am still more blessed than others. A roof over my head, a bed to sleep on, food on the table, clothes on my back. My kids are all done with college and are gainfully employed. There is so much to be grateful for and I should express it more everyday! Thank you for the reminder.
This is great, Kristine! Taking a hard look at all of your blessings makes such a huge difference. I’m happy to offer that reminder through my gratitude challenge.
This is wonderful because it promotes having a positive outlook in life. It’s really nice to make sure you’re aware of the blessings that you have each day, it makes you feel better and stronger when it comes to facing daily challenges!
Yes, Terri! Gratitude definitely makes you feel better and stronger, especially in the face of hard times. Great point!
I really need to be grateful everyday! Think about small things that make me happy and celebrate them!
That’s such a great goal, Emman. Go for it! Take the gratitude challenge!
what a terrific idea! bravo on creating a 40 day gratitude challenge. might i suggest a pinterest image so we can share your challenge?
Thanks so much, Joy. I thought the image was pinnable. I have corrected that. I appreciate your feedback!
This is such a positive and refreshing post. It made me think about a few things! Does gratitude really work? Absolutely! What goes around comes around.
Yes, Myrah, gratitude does work! When we show thankfulness, our cup overflows!
I think once we realize how much we actually have, instead of focusing what we don’t have, your whole mindset completely changes.
You’re so right, Heather. Most people focus on the negative and what they don’t have. A gratitude challenge is such a simple way to add some positivity into our lives.
Wendy you are like a cup that runs over with blessings. Jesus has filled you to overflow with His joy and we have had the blessing of watching you be poured out. Thank you so much for being my friend and support in our Kingdom Bloggers group. You are such a treasure! ❤
Thank you so much, Donna. What a beautiful compliment! I am thankful for you and our community and I’m thankful for Jesus, who is the reason for it all!
Please Wendy help me understand more about Jesus
Hi Kathleen, thank you for reaching out. Please click the Spiritual Growth category in the menu at the top of the website. There are dozens of articles to help you understand Jesus and how to grow your faith.
Oooohhhhhh….let’s get it on!
Thanks for the printable, this sounds really great, remembering your blessing and the love that your family has for you will bring joy to you even at hard times.
Exactly, Surekha! Such simple reminders in my gratitude challenge will bring joy on a daily basis.
I get up every day and remember that I have more than so many people out there. I have a home and a family, and I don’t live in fear.
So true, Colleen. Your comment that we don’t live in fear is a great one. So many people live in countries where that is not the norm. It’s sad and scary and we do have so much to be thankful for.
I love this so much. I think so many of us forget to be thankful for what we have. it’s just human nature.
Thanks, Jill. Unfortunately, you’re right that there’s too many people who forget to be thankful. It’s so simple and makes such a big impact.
I’ve been keeping a gratitude journal since the beginning of October. Each day I list 5 unique things I’m grateful for. It helps me see that even my worst days have a silver lining.
I love it, Marcie! Every day does have a silver lining. Great job keeping a gratitude journal!
I like this challenge. I used to write two things I am grateful for each day no matter how bad my day is. It really makes me feel postivie and have a great night sleep.
That’s a great practice, Julie. Regardless of a good day or bad day, reminders of gratitude keeps our outlook positive.
I agree there needs to be gratitude in life as well. It creates a positive outlook!
We all need to be thankful, Cinny. It definately keeps us focused on the positive.
I loved the part of your post that said “I truly believe that thankful people are happy people.” That makes so much sense to me. When people forget to be Thankful they are forgetting to look at all they have to be thankful for. Thank you for such an inspirational post.
Thanks so much, Audrey. Sometimes I think that we just need reminders to keep our gratitude in check.
I like having this challenge printed off. It will keep me focused on the gratitude for the day.
Thanks so much, Bill. I agree that a visual calendar helps you stay focused. It’s a great reminder of things to look for.